Wednesday, June 22, 2011

s.e.l.f.c.o.n.f.i.d.e.n.c.e

there is one fatty girl named zira.
even herself dont know wat happen to her.
lately, shes soo peerasan..
she thinks that she's cute,
nice, n adorable..
those are all that she thinks
but the true fact is,
she is NOT..
haha..
*evil laugh*
ok..

that is an introductory paragraph which has no direct connection with the post.
ahaks!.
as mentioned on the top of da post,
i bet everyone know how importance is the self confidence.
in our daily life, this is the inner value that must be nurtured since it has became a vital aspect to show yourself to the world.
it is not the act of showing off.
but it is rather the way of letting the world surrounds u noticed your existence in a positive means.
wen dealing with people,
especially wen it comes to the business matter,
people usually will make a deal with the person that have enough self confidence in himself..
they believe that people with high confidence level will do the best to achieve something.
*noted here dat :it is not a kind of over confidence.ngee*
an employer also will choose the person with a confidence as his employee during an interview
rather than a person that is shaking and shivering here and there.hihi.
so,we, as a newbies-to-be in a working state life,
we have to build enough self confidence in our self,
isnt it?
i believe that everyone in this world
has their own way of enhancing their self-confidence.
so do i.
this morning,
before we (sista n me) going to make facial at beauty saloon,
my lovely sista did told me that,
sista: 'adik, akak rasa diri akak ni x confidence la skrg.hm'
me: 'bakpo kak?'
sista: 'yela..tgk la muka akak skrg ni dik..jerawat sana sini.gelap plak tu.hish.segan la nak jumpa orang'
me: 'laa..jangan la macam tu kak..xpe2..nanti kita buat sumthing.dun worry k.as long as u get ur confidence back.'
smile sis!
ok, now, i wanna ask,
who is in da same position with my sis?
sila angkat tangan sorg2 yer.
ahaks.
ladies n gentlemen,
it is possible that wen some causation happen,
in this case (a bad-condition face;full with acne, n some sort of that things),
it will lead to the decreasing of the self confidence level.
u will always have this thinking in ur mind
'how can i present this proposal where everyone is looking n concentrating at me, n me myself got the problem with my face?they would laugh at me.oh no!stop looking at me!"
wen this kind of thing happen, u will experience low self confidence.
am i right??
ladies out there,
just believe in urself ok?
believe in ur ability n da latent talent dat Allah gave to u.
appreciate the abilities and use it to the fullest means.
not necessarily u have to be pretty like an angel then only u will get the job.
aint?
if u got the nice physical appearance
then, it is the bonus.
:)
however,if u wanna improve ur physical look, its ok.
just please...
dun do plastic surgery ok?
haha.
if u r fat (like me =p),
u can exercise,
or go on diet for some time..
if u r facing same situation like my sista,
then u can go for facial,
or some kind of treatment,
if ur hair is facing hair loss,
make something with it!
:)
as long as u satisfied and believe that those thing can build ur self confidence,
then,
work for it..
those are all bout physical appearance..
the same goes with the 'amount' of knowledge n skill
if u think that by empowering the French language will boost ur self confidence while having deal with Frenchmen,
then,
do learn and practice it.
as i said above,
as long as u satisfied and believe that those thing can build ur self confidence,
then,
work for it!
why it is do?
because self confidence is crucially important!
love u all.
enjoy reading!
:)


  





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